3 New Moms + 1 Great Mother

Over a decade ago, the first time I met Michelle Stantial was in Barnegat Light. I swear that tiny tear dripped off her nose, hit the sand, mixed with the blood of Tufters, and the soul of Plover Park was formed. And so was NestStory!

It was a great honor to spend Mother’s Day on the beach with NestStory’s great mother, Michelle Stantial. Some of you might remember Michelle from endless, past readings where I followed her around and celebrated every little thing she did. She is legend here on RFTNS because if there is any one person who took this blog from being full of fun stories about Mac Daddy and useful info like water temps, to a bunch of sad stories about super endangered beach nesting birds and much-too-geeky bits about science stuff, it’s Michelle!

The first day I met her was over a decade ago, at Barnegat Light, when I took a now-infamous photo of the great scientist crying. It was mostly nerves; that day was the very first day of her multi-year project that would change how we all think about piping plovers, their habitats, their survival, and how we best might care for them. We would shed a lot more tears in those summers, constantly having to witness the harsh realities our local beach nesters suffer together.

While Todd Pover was already drawing out plans for Plover Park on the back of a napkin somewhere, and funds were getting lined up for such a project, the results of Michelle’s work were clear: something had to be done. Not only was Barnegat Light the saddest habitat in New Jersey, it was actually a “sink.” This means any chicks it produced had such a low chance of survival that it would be better for no plovers to nest here at all! Her work here, and her gigantic heart, have been a huge force pushing us all in the right direction.

As we walked through the park, we were, literally, walking in a dream. Our own dream. We dreamed of this place, many times, and here it actually is. We surely didn’t build it. But our dream came true regardless. I was struck by the thought that the only difference between a dream and a better world is a little bit of time and effort. Even sweeter when it’s someone else’s effort!

As we walked out through Plover Park, and she marveled about the incredible growth in numbers of beach nesters nesting here, and the rich abundance of diverse bird life attracted to it generally, what struck me the most was her awe at the most important point: how beautiful the park is. It truly is stunning. Plover Park has made Barnegat Light State Park better in every possible way it could have been made better. Even better than we’d dreamed!

But enough of that. Unbeknownst to me, there was work to do. Here I had thought that Michelle chose me to join her on her triumphant return to Plover Park because of all the great things we’ve done together, like creating NestStory, and The Little Egg Foundation. But nope. It turns out I was the only one dumb and desperate enough to spend my whole Sunday (Mothers’ Day no less) schlepping around the beach with her while she carefully trapped and banded the park’s unbanded adult plovers!

People always ask how she catches them for banding, and the answer is simple. The olde-fashioned “Wabbit Trap” from Looney Tunes. A box with a stick and string. What’s funniest about that is, today, the piece of wood Emily had provided (a paint stirrer) was a little too big, so Michelle had to search the beach and find an actual stick. Here’s how it works:

Step 1: You carefully prepare everything, and make sure you have the Lighthouse in the background of the photo.
Step 2: You carefully put a box over the nest, prop it up with a stick, and tie a string to it. If you have any questions about any of the steps involved, you watch Looney Tunes for a demonstration.

Step 3: You walk away slowly and let out the string, then find a place to hide. If there is no place to hide, you wear carefully camouflaged clothing to blend into the habitat naturally, usually not bright purples and turquoise with glitter on your face.

Step 4: When the bird returns to the eggs, you yoink the string and trap the bird. Then you carefully remove it and put it in a bag you sewed from fancy fabric (I’m not sure why)
Step 5: You carefully band the bird with four colored bands, two on each leg, making that bird forever an ambassador for the species, and answering important questions about the lives of piping plovers. You also turn your glitter cheek towards the camera hoping Northside Jim notices because you probably did it just because you know how much he loves those details and thinks they make for better photos.
Step 6: You carefully inspect the bird, measuring everything, assessing its size, fat, health, condition, age, and sex. You try not to talk too much about how pretty it is, which is really hard. Probably the hardest part of the whole thing.
Step 7: You weigh the bird in a jar of Talenti, which is low key rude, but it’s science so I guess it’s OK?
Step 8: That’s it. You release the bird back to Plover Park, but you take great care to wait for me to count to 3 so the bird doesn’t run out of the shot before I have a chance to take the photo. It’s been a while and apparently Michelle forgot this critical part. Those bands will last the bird’s lifetime. This release shot would have lasted much, much longer.

So that’s it. We managed to get 3 of Plover Park’s newest moms today. They are now banded ambassadors, and part of the long tradition of banding that all started right here with Michelle in Barnegat Light over a decade ago.

Allow me to introduce:

Bangdoodle: a new female in the park this year, nesting down by the river with an unbanded male we hope to catch soon. Named after the Bangdoodle River.
Pokey: Pokey is the mate of Secretariat. Named after the horse from Gumby.
Grannypanty: Half of a newly arrived, unbanded pair. Welcome to the park, and sorry Michelle botched your release pic. I’m not sure what she’s named for, but I have a feeling Michelle & Jim won’t be allowed to band & name birds on their own anymore.

Happy Mother’s Day.

13 responses to “3 New Moms + 1 Great Mother”

  1. Awesome Neighbor Avatar
    Awesome Neighbor

    Sounds like a perfect way to spend any day! Thank you for all this hard work ❤️

    1. exit63 Avatar
      exit63

      Thanks Awesome Neighbor!

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    teribowersd3d2c723cc

    Love this!!! Superstars!!!

    1. exit63 Avatar
      exit63

      Right back at you, Hero of IBSP!

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    Anonymous

    She is a wonderful person and a great Plover Mother.

    1. exit63 Avatar
      exit63

      Amen

  4. Kim Avatar
    Kim

    Thank you for sharing this #PerfectPipingPlover story! I was just asking a loved one who works in the field how wildlife scientists go about safely capturing, studying and releasing these precious birds. This article explains it so well complete with photos and humor! Thank you for the education!

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      exit63

      Wonderful!

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    Anonymous

    Oh my god, this was so sweet!! You two are the best and it brings me such joy to see you reunited <3 However, not only will you not be naming any more plovers, I am not sure these are safe from my veto, lol. Love the river and horse themes, but you might need to re-pitch with other options! :p And I am also gonna defend our paint stirrer. Looking at the pic, I think we just set a lil different than MS does. There's more than one way to Wabbit, lol! Love you two, great work on Mama's Day!!

    1. exit63 Avatar
      exit63

      We’ve got more names. Paint stirrer does not have the same comedic effect

  6. […] I need to rub it all out and start over again from scratch: While we were out yesterday for the Mother’s Day banding extravaganza, Michelle found another record-setting piping plover nest in Plover […]

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    Anonymous

    Thank you, Northside Jim for bringing Readings from the Northside back to life! It’s like Christmas morning when I see these emails and get to open each “gift”! Fascinating stories of the Three Year Olds, “flashers”, and now these nuggets! Please know how very much you are appreciated, not just for these incredible stories, but for all your hard work and dedication to our precious feathered, shore friends.

    1. exit63 Avatar
      exit63

      #1 comment of the season. I really appreciate it.

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